Everyone needs someone. I firmly believe that and always have. Some people live a lonely existence of searching for the one and never quite find them, or worse, settle for what they have. No bueno.
You need to take the time and have the patience to figure out what you want and who you are before you start looking for the right person. Once you do, you’d be surprised how quickly the woman of your dreams will fall out of the sky. All men are different and are all looking for something specific, as are women.
The perfect woman could be a Spanish teacher at an alternative high school, a loan officer, an astronaut, or maybe a dog trainer. She might be a cat lover, she may be allergic to cats. Perhaps she doesn’t want children and neither do you, just travel and live for each other. Maybe she has kids and doesn’t want more unless it’s right. She may want to chop all her hair off even if you like long hair, and you’ll love it no matter what. She might not like to drink too often. Then again, she may like to go to casinos and black out.
Lots of different qualities make for the right woman. The right woman for you may not be the right woman for someone else. Again, it takes time and patience to figure out what you’re looking for. And a bit of trial and error with some women in person. But she exists and will be worth the wait. You’ll talk on the phone for hours at a time and not realize it, talking about everything under the sun, serious and silly. You’ll miss each other at random times throughout the day and night. You may not always have the time to speak with each other but the feelings are there and won’t go away, and you’ll both understand that that’s ok.
My point is the right woman for everyone is out there somewhere and is looking for you just as much as you are looking for her. Be patient, know who you are and what you want, and take a chance once in a while.
For all the women reading this, the same thing goes for you, but the opposite.
Stay classy, and I’ll see you at the next stop.